As
they say, “With great power comes great responsibility.” Keeping your
professional and personal roles as well as your accolades in mind, how do you
keep up with these expectations and pressure:
I must say that it’s
been quite overwhelming for me to be receiving so many awards and being able to
stand as a role model for people who seek inspiration in me. This does come
with its own set of responsibilities. It’s true that I have to constantly be in
public eye, there is indeed a pressure to perform and give my best for that
matter. The fundamental question to keep in mind here is- “Are you working to
get these awards or is your work getting you the awards?” The difference lies
there itself because if one is working just for the sake of awards and
validation, this isn’t the work you deliver from your heart! My motivation to
perform has always been rooted from the quality of work I’ve been able to
deliver and how my ventures impact and make the mark for me. You ought to be
performing, you ought to give your best but at the same time not be overpowered
by the pressure so much that it impacts your way of working. Herein, I’ve been
moving in a direction where both my mind and heart take me to following my
passion and being as authentic as I can, about the same. With these esteemed
awards and honours, there also have been times where I had to face backlashes
and endure critics too. The mantra in both cases lays the same- you have to
keep going on with what you truly want for yourself, not letting external
factors change the course of circumstances for you.
Evolution
of the HR industry and its future:
The transformation of
the HR industry has indeed been one that is rapid. Although I am not directly
working under the industry, I teach and train people in the domain that has
kept me in close contact with the HR setup. Some big changes that I’ve seen
firstly include the greater socialization within the domain. This is aided by
the increased incorporation of technology that has revolutionised the system in
limitless ways. HR teams are working by reaching out to customers directly
today, which is a new change. The mechanism of direct touch with end-users or
with its teams has definitely made the domain not just more open but more
personal. Back in the past, any form of social media including Facebook was
seen as a distraction at work, and the use of it as a waste of time. This is
not the case today- now we have company workplaces on social media, which are
very active and are constantly sharing things about their employees on these
platforms. They show the positives and the accomplishments of members in their workforce
that not just lets their work to be known but gives other people a close glance
of their colleagues on a personal level. This increased visibility also aids to
the process of better analysis of the employees which definitely is a positive
shift.
Another change was in
the perception of working from home which was earlier only seen as a way in
which people excused themselves from work or exploited with the opportunity to
be home. This notion was limited to people who had some serious issues, to women
who were pregnant or only the ones who were sick. Looking at it today, working
from home is indeed the new normal. With flexible work hours, HR breakout rooms
and zoom meetings have been immensely popular and the employees are performing better
in this case scenario as the barriers are gradually fading. Employees are no
longer in touch only in the working hours but are reachable at all times. The
system of analysis of feedbacks has also been a great change to witness. The
industry has opened itself to less formal and more real functional setups.
Thus, I would say
that the transformation has happened in leaps and bounds, analysing feedbacks,
being more social and definitely making the best use of technology. People who
are working better are reaching higher- one’s knowledge, abilities and networks
together take them to higher prospects sooner than how the system of promotions
happened years before. As the hierarchy is slowly fading, networking has
changed with increasing importance today. Meet-ups have been common in workplaces today
and people are making the best use of it. The system has truly changed to
become more wholesome and places a greater value to the necessity of communication.
As an
expert leader and propagator of good causes, what do you think are the major
changes you truly want to see in this world and relentlessly fight to
establish:
As an educationist, I have never backed down
from voicing my opinions when it came to crucial vitalities in the contemporary
world. As responsible citizens, we ought to be clear about our opinions and put
them forth for the cause of better course of actions in regard to our nation. I
have always believed in education being one of the continuous missions of my
life. I am trying to raise utmost awareness about what we should do, what can
be done and it is only when it’s backed by education, that people can actually
bring about a change in their mindset. We need to work in unity, identify and
address issues of concern and yet bring about win-win solutions for the
circumstances in concern. As long as there’s nothing in it for the people, they
surely won’t step in! We need to work in collaboration with one another, adapt
from the good we see elsewhere and yet be open to help change circumstances for
others too! As an educationist, I keep connecting to people of my niche
extensively on the international forum, learning and educating on what’s
working for them, what could be adopted, what might help us too.
We need to teach our girls to be opinionated,
to not be bowing down for everything, develop an awareness of the world around
and learn to voice out- loud and clear! We have to educate our boys to be
respectful yet at the same time be aware of the vitalities of exploitation that
takes place in their case too- they have the right to speak up and they
definitely should! We need to educate both the sexes very well in terms of
refusing to comply with injustice and speak up for the cause they believe in-
when both of them start working in
collaboration and not in competition, it’s only then that their voices bring
about great action!
What
is your personal secret key to keep a perfect work-life balance with your wonder-mom
position in the family:
It
takes four wheels of a car to get it going- and is the same for the family. If
one has the right kind of support from their partner, it’s going to go a long
way in helping keep the perfect balance of a happy life. My husband, my kids
and my parents have always been my first priority in life. I’ve always worked
part-time and kept enough time in hand so that I could well about incorporate
our family values in them, provided we live here in Switzerland, far from where
our roots lie. I want them to have the right Indian values instilled yet have
the openness to learn from the best European values. For any family to be
giving their best, it’s important that they work together and have the support
of all the family members. I’ve always been lucky and blessed that my parents
have shouldered the responsibility from time on and that my husband has also
been a great support in terms of managing the show. For a successful woman, the
support from the key members in her life leads her to big wonders because she
is self assured that she has people backing her. There are some women who lack
this support and so, even though they have a spark in them, they are not able
to perform their best or are hesitant. I
have had my fair share of compromises and step downs too, but it was a rounded,
well-discussed and in a sensible way wherein my husband and I worked through it
cohesively. I also believe that being transparent with your children, and not
spoon-feeding them helps them understand their share of responsibilities and
how we can do things together to be able to move together.
Who
would you consider to be the mentor that helped you overcome difficulties and
pushed you into becoming a successful leader/person:
It is so true. In my case I can clearly say that on a personal
level it has been my parents and my husband who have been my consistent support
and the huge amount of mentorship they have given me from time to time is
almost unbelievable. Even though I am always talking of the need of emotional
intelligence for a person, I find myself doubting my abilities and being
under-confident very often. My parents stood as loud role models who always encourage
me to keep going, and believe in myself.
They have a very strong role as mentors in my life right from my childhood. My
husband has been my biggest critic for all those times when I felt less
comfortable or less confident, he makes sure we have a healthy discussion and
tries to help me analyse things better and get them to perspective. These
people have been strong pillars of support in making the person who I am today.
My sister has also helped me get a better glance of the mirror, supporting,
helping and pushing me to better prospects. On a professional level, there have
been so many people from different arenas who have stood by me and given me the
required support and visibility to be who I am today. It will not be fair to
name only one in them because there stands many who have given me the much
needed respect, collaboration and the opportunity to excel in life.